ABUSE: 3

SPEAKING OUT ABOUT ABUSE
🚨Choosing between a Victim and a Perpetrator.
When I speak of abuse, I am speaking about all different types of abuse to children, whether it be physical, sexual, mental ect.

🛑This was a had topic to speak about, knowing I was abused at an early age and did not have anyone to speak to about it. Perpetrators are sometimes people we love or had loved or someone really close to us like a family member or relative. But when coming to choosing between an abused child who is the victim of abuse and a perpetrator who is someone close to you, WHO WOULD YOU CHOOSE TO LISTEN TO?
When some children are abused, the perpetrator tries to defend themselves in everyway. Making up lies and deceiving everyone into believing them instead of the victim. But did u know, a child would not lie when someone abuses them, me speaking from my own experience, because they want it to stop so bad that they will tell the truth to just get out of the situation. So my question is: Would you choose the perpetrator over the victim or the Victim over the perpetrator?
🚫If you choose the perpetrator over the victim then you are one who is a perpetrator yourself, because you are encouraging child abuse. But if you choose the victim, you are doing something good, so don’t feel bad if you do. This doesn’t mean you have hate in your heart for the perpetrator. From my own experience, while growing up I hated the people who abused me, but, I have learnt to not hate them but hate their actions, in this way I can forgive them and try to help others out of similar situations and maybe get help and restoration for them as well so they can continue living a better life without fear. Victims are often not heard even if they speak out aloud, so listen closely.

God don’t sleep, he knows everything we do, we say and how we live, so becareful of your acts.

By: Milz😇 God is in control…please like and share.
In dedication to my brother, may he RIP.