SPEAKING OUT ABOUT ABUSE
🚨Choosing between a Victim and a Perpetrator.
When I speak of abuse, I am speaking about all different types of abuse to children, whether it be physical, sexual, mental ect.

🛑This was a had topic to speak about, knowing I was abused at an early age and did not have anyone to speak to about it. Perpetrators are sometimes people we love or had loved or someone really close to us like a family member or relative. But when coming to choosing between an abused child who is the victim of abuse and a perpetrator who is someone close to you, WHO WOULD YOU CHOOSE TO LISTEN TO?
When some children are abused, the perpetrator tries to defend themselves in everyway. Making up lies and deceiving everyone into believing them instead of the victim. But did u know, a child would not lie when someone abuses them, me speaking from my own experience, because they want it to stop so bad that they will tell the truth to just get out of the situation. So my question is: Would you choose the perpetrator over the victim or the Victim over the perpetrator?
🚫If you choose the perpetrator over the victim then you are one who is a perpetrator yourself, because you are encouraging child abuse. But if you choose the victim, you are doing something good, so don’t feel bad if you do. This doesn’t mean you have hate in your heart for the perpetrator. From my own experience, while growing up I hated the people who abused me, but, I have learnt to not hate them but hate their actions, in this way I can forgive them and try to help others out of similar situations and maybe get help and restoration for them as well so they can continue living a better life without fear. Victims are often not heard even if they speak out aloud, so listen closely.

God don’t sleep, he knows everything we do, we say and how we live, so becareful of your acts.

By: Milz😇 God is in control…please like and share.
In dedication to my brother, may he RIP.

SPEAKING OUT ABOUT ABUSE
🚨Have you ever listened to a child, I mean really listen 🎶🤔
Some of us are so busy that we don’t really take time to listen to children. We think that they are talking nonsense, asking unnecessary questions and boring us.
🛑✋️Have you ever listened to a child who was abused? Or do we just walk away and ignore them. Well if you are one of those who walk away, then you need to stop and listen. Children want to feel safe, they want to have a sense of security from someone they can trust. If you sit and listen you will know how much hurt and pain the child has been through emotionally, mentally and psychologically. They would tell you things and secrets that you wouldn’t believe they had or were going through. So next time a child starts telling you what happened to them, or how they feel, STOP ✋️ and listen.

God don’t sleep, he knows everything we do, we say and how we live, so becareful of your acts.

By: Milz😇 God is in control…please like and share
In dedication to my brother, may he RIP.

SPEAKING OUT ABOUT ABUSE
🚨We speak about women being abused, but ABUSE TO MEN is not spoken off enough and it’s always hidden, and ABUSE TO CHILDREN should not be tolerated. In Trinidad and Tobago we don’t do enough to protect our children.
🛑It needs to stop somewhere✋️.
And for those who are encouraging these type of behaviours and giving in to these predators, you all are monsters not humans. Even if it’s your family, sister, brother, mother,father, it’s not an excuse for them to abuse anyone and lie, deceive and get away with these henious acts.

God don’t sleep, he knows everything we do, we say and how we live, so becareful of your acts.

By: Milz😇 God is in control…please like and share
In dedication to my brother, may he RIP.

Recently I have been seeing and hearing so many news about children being abused sexually, physically, emotionally and many other types of abuse. It’s sad to say that this have been happening years with a blinded eye.

The children are our future, we the sane ones in this world, need to protect our children. Stop saying it is not our business. Pedophiles are attacking our children day and night through the internet. Keep a close eye on our children, watch them like a hawk. I know it sounds easy but it’s not, they find ways to pull in our children into their evil traps.

At times we see children being abused by their own parents or guardians, sometimes foster parents. We see them pimping out these children. What are we doing about this? Are we going to stand and watch these things happen to our innocent souls and allow them to be traumatized for the rest of their life? Or are we going to speak out?

Recently I read a story in my country, it is alleged that a child who was in the care of Children’s Authority being sexually abused by some high position political leaders. This disgusted me because it was covered up. It happened in 1999 and we are now in 2022, and they have now bought up the case that evidence was found. Why are they allowing child ponography to be circled around the internet? Why are people finding this amusing to watch? “THE DARK WEB IS REAL PEOPLE!”

Children have been dieing in the care of parents and nothing is being done about it. When children are abused by parents, they put the children right back with the same people who have been abusing these children for years. Giving the abusers couselling and hoping that the person/s will change and start showing love to the children. I have seen these things happening for decades and they never change, there is always a breaking point where they eventually start doing it again.

The authority in the third world countries, sorry to say but they encourage these things to happen to children. Laws are not being implemented to protect our children enough. Instead of the parliament speaking about these things, they fight down each other about money and who playing the blame game. I am so disgusted about the protection agencies that they do not take their work seriously when coming to children. A parent who abuses a child is still walking like a free bird out their, whilst the child is traumatized and going through pain, hurt and suffering.

We need to stand up and fight for these innocent souls. We need to start doing more to protect our children, be their voice and strenght.

PROTECT OUR CHILDREN NOW

Milz🤗 …God is in control…please like and share

Time plays a significant role in our life…

Time helps us make a good habit of structuring and organizing our daily activities. If you understand the value of time better, you can gain experience and develop skills over time. Time is the most valuable and precious resource, because you cannot take it back.

Even though time is something that’s all around us and sometimes we take it for granted…time is one of the most mysterious forces in the universe. Have you ever asked yourself why does time matter so much?

Everything in the universe is affected by time , be it the plants, people, the Sun and moon. Time is the most precious resource because you can’t get a second back. Alot of us think that money is the more valuable resource, but even though it is important, time however is unable to be touched, it has no physical presence and once it’s gone, it’s gone.

There is a saying that everyone has the same 24 hours a day, so no one should complain about not having enough time. But the reality is that, while YES, technically everyone has 24 hours in a day, everyone does not have the same duties, jobs, free time, it varies.

No one knows how much time they have on the earth. People die at any time, for any reason, we cannot predict the future. The only time we have is NOW, we can’t guarantee the next second. How we see time will impact our happiness in life. There is nothing wrong about the past and future, but we need to live in the present.

Yes, there are memories and lessons to be learnt from the past and dreams and goals to fulfill in the future, but the present is what will allow us to have happiness and peace of mind. Do not reminisce of the past and worry about the future. We use the past for experiences and prepare for the future, but the time we live in, is NOW.

There are so many distractions in the world today, like social media and smartphones. These take up so much of our time. We spend so much time on these things that we don’t realize time can slip away so fast. Do you know if you cut down on your use of technology, you will be able to free up more time in order to achieve and accomplish more?

Time is the best resource we have, but also one of the limited. We have a chance at making the most of the time we got, but it is easy to waste also, you can lose time if you are not careful. If you access how much time you have to do things on a daily basis and try to make yourself much more efficient whenever you can, your time would be managed properly.

Managing time poorly can make a big impact in your life. Good time management can help you in every aspect of your life, whether it be work, or home, ensure you make the most out of every moment. Learn to enjoy every minute of your life. Be happy now. Think of how precious time is, every minute should be important and enjoyed, but use it wisely. Make perfect use of the time u have.

Jack Kornfield said ” the trouble is, you think you have time.”

Time waits on NO ONE. You can’t stop a clock or slow things down. So seize every opportunity and make the most of your time as much as possible.

Milz😇🤗 please like and share if you find this article interesting.

When was the last time you stopped to consider your needs, without also taking into account what someone else wanted for you? Many of us neglect ourselves and think more about others and their needs. Focusing on yourself is not being selfish, it’s an act of self love.

Really think about what you like to do, what things bring joy to your life when you don’t have to consider anyone’s preferences. What books, movies, and activities are you drawn to when no one’s watching?

Read books, listen to new podcasts, pick up a new hobby. Wilform says, “Learning new things can improve brain capacity and happiness, while mastering new skills builds confidence and self-respect.”

One of the best places to start on the road to self-improvement is by envisioning your self, and how you might like to feel years down the line. And from there, beginning to live life from that perspective.

There are times when people try to bring you down, and that is when you need to be strong and focus more on yourself rather than listening to what others are saying.

  Make sure that no matter what happens, always try to put yourself first and keep your self-worth above that of others.

Milz😇 God is in control of our lives…

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I have been hurt and broken alot of times. My past mistakes made me sacrifice my dreams, but I am now a new and better version of myself. I have learned my lessons. It’s time that I chased after my own happiness.

Creating change in our lives, starts with being honest with ourselves. “Our lives improve only when we take chances and the first and most difficult risk we can take is to be honest with ourselves.” Walter Anderson.

Milzcoc😇

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As a child we sometimes have so many dreams. As we grow older those dreams either become a reality for some or they never come true. The people that made thier dreams come true are the ones who really changed their mindset and worked towards those dreams. Our mindset is what helps us to be focused on achieving our dreams.

Believe in yourself, have faith in your abilities.

Dream bigger, as the saying goes, “if you can dream it, you can do it.”

Build your will power muscle. ” Where there is a will there is a way.”

Practice Innovation, do not wait, the time will never be ‘just right.’

Be consistent, press forward.

Imagine your best future. The future belongs to those who believes in their dreams.

Be ambitious. Aim for the stars 🌟

Maximize your time. Just keep going.

Work hard no matter what obstacles, mistakes, doubts. A mistake is a learning process.

Stay focused…keep your eyes on the stars.

We aim above the mark to hit the mark…(Ralph Waldo Emerson).

One way to keep going is having constant goals.

Acting immediately, changing your life today is a great decision, don’t gamble with your future.

Perseverance is the key, you can’t beat a person who never gives up.

One step at a time, start where u are, use what you have now.

Think about why you should continue going after your dreams…think about all those people who said you couldn’t, and just keep going…motivation. Never give up, you will never know if the next step was the final one to reach your dreams.

Milzcoc🤗God is great yesterday, today and forever .

There are so many people around us who are in serious trouble. Sometimes we can turn a blind eye towards them. So many people have financial problems, addictive problems, different types of illnesses. There are all types of stress related problems that someone, somewhere may be facing.

Most of us had been in simular situations, before God blessed us with what we have today. We know the feeling and hurt that comes from these problems. I’m sure that you pray every day to never go back to those living conditions. We are all human beings, we all face trials and tribulations. Sometimes it can be difficult, but we always have to remember to thank God for what he has blessed us with, there is always somebody suffering more than you.

There’s a lesson in the Holy Bible that I have come to love, it speaks of a widow casting two mites for offering in the temple. Two mites is a very small amount of money, two small coins ( its like making up a penny). This is all the poor widow had in her possession, there were also rich people casting great gifts and treasures, but Jesus said to the disciples, the poor widow cast in more than they all. For thats all the treasures she had in the world. (READ Luke 21:1-4, Mark 12: 41-44).

You see, In the story, the rich was giving out of their wealth but they would have retained their fortune, but the poor widow out of her poverty, she put in everything she had to live on. Hers was a true sacrifice, the rich had not begun to give to the level of her sacrifice. The big gifts were surely noticed. But no one else saw what Jesus saw, the humble gift of a poor widow.

When we give we give in faith. No matter how poor we are, or how much we need charity, we should always have a heart of giving. No matter how little we have, we should always be able to help and give. Giving is not only financial, we can give our love, our care, our kindness, our time, our wisdom and so many more gifts to others who need it.

PROVERBS 28:27 says- those who give to the poor will lack nothing, but those who close their eyes to them recieve many curses. GOD commands us to give generously to the less fortunate and to speak up in their behalf. We should not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to act. When u give, do not give with a grudging heart, God wants us to be open handed toward all.

God teaches us that giving can be a simple encouraging word, a simple smile, an act of kindness or even defending someone’s rights. We should speak out for those who cannot speak out for themselves. Defend the rights of the poor and needy. We should not exploit the poor because they are poor. Let us not love with words and speech, but with actions. A generous person will always prosper. Show mercy and compassion to each other. Do not plot evil against each other. Treat everyone equal, never be hardhearted to anyone, never make someone feel they are worth nothing.

God never forgets the needy, so when u are willing to give your help, God will always stand at your side. PSALMS 9:9 says- The Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble. PROVERBS 22:9 tells us, when you share your food with the poor, you will be blessed. Never lack in zeal to help the needy, helping brings Joy and Hope. Always stay faithful in prayer.

🤗Milzcoc – if u find this article interesting please like, share, comment. GOD BLESSES US ALL.

Don’t be scared to want something more for your life.  Fight for your dreams, no one else can fight for it but you, do not settle on your dreams , move further, do not compromise. Be a person who hates to fail. In life you will fail, but it’s what you do after those failures that counts. Push it aside and move forward. Take some risk that you may not want to take, it might be the risk worth taking.

No matter what you do in life, where you are striving to reach, there will always be people who will envy you, be unhappy for you. But don’t let this stop you from your dreams and goals. There would always be people trying to throw obstacles in your way, we can’t please everyone. Age is not an option for change, you can make a change any time in your life. If you know what you are passionate about, If you know what your’re good at, then invest in that. Become the best you can at it,  learn more on it, be mentored on it, find ways for you to be incredible at it.

There will be a time that you would start to get tired,  frustrated, you will think why is it so hard for me ? But when you think it’s just you, it’s not, don’t quite, keep striving, cause when you start having those negative feelings it’s time for you to have a break through. That break true in your life that would push you further to your dreams. You should feel better about yourself, since you stepped up to another level in your life. If success was a joyride, there would be a lot of successful people. But when you work hard, you gain experience, you get to know your strenghts and weaknesses, your boundaries.

You can always see someone else more successful than you and wonder why? Maybe you need to start working harder and doing more. Stop being lazy , spend less time on social media, watching TV,  just lying down and complaining. Spend more time in doing extra things to help build you up, to be the success you want to be. Start doing things you wouldn’t normally do, don’t settle for good, push your boundaries to GREAT. Discipline your self, be determined, be dedicated. Try figuring out where your power base is, build yourself up and keep yourself full. What shows your strength is what you do with your downfalls.   You will get feelings that some old habits may have to change, how you spend your time may have to change, you may even have to let go off some people in your life. That feeling can be the beginning of a new phase in your life,  it’s the feeling of  growth.

Many of us make New Year’s resolutions, but how many of us live up to them? Growth is change. It just happens, we are not prepared for it, but that’s what it is, it’s in our Nature. We don’t have to prepare Growth, we just have to move with it.  All you have to do is decide.

😇Milzcoc